The November Reset
A Free 3-Day Practice for Moving from Resentment to Gratitude
November feels heavy this year.
The earth is cold and bare and stagnant right now. And if you're honest—really honest—there's resentment sitting in your chest. Resentment from months or even years of comparing your life to everyone else’s. Maybe it showed up last week when your friend posted about the promotion you've been working toward for years. Maybe it's been building since summer, every time your sister calls to talk about her life without asking about yours. Maybe it's older than that. A slow accumulation of all the times life gave someone else what you needed while you’re struggling to just be able to get by.
And by Thanksgiving, you're supposed to count your blessings.
Make lists of gratitude. Smile at the holiday table and mean it.
But all you can think about is what you DON'T have.
What someone else DOES have. And how unfair that feels.
You're not broken for feeling this way.
Late autumn is the season of resentment. The earth is withholding now—no more flowers, no more abundance, just bare branches and cold ground. When the world looks scarce, we start keeping score.
But here's what the season is actually teaching us: This stripping away is necessary. The earth isn't being cruel—it's composting. Breaking down what died so it can feed what comes next. Your resentment can do the same thing.
The November Reset will guide you through 3 days of real transformation.
This isn't about forcing gratitude you don't feel. It's not about "just letting go" or pretending the resentment doesn't exist.
It's about acknowledging it, understanding it, and then—slowly, carefully—letting it transform.
What you get in this free guide:
Day 1: Acknowledge the Resentment A tarot spread that helps you see where your resentment lives, what it's protecting you from, and what it's costing you. We start with truth, not bypassing.
Day 2: Release What's Ready A simple ritual (burning or burying) that lets you physically release resentment that's ready to go. Plus a grounding practice using seasonal food correspondences.
Day 3: Invite Gratitude A daily practice for finding real, specific, embodied gratitude—not the performed kind. The kind that coexists with hard things. The kind you can actually feel.
This is transformation work that honors both the shadow and the light. Both the resentment and the gratitude.
Because both can be true.
WHO THIS IS FOR
This 3-day practice is for you if:
✓ You're tired of toxic positivity and "just be grateful" advice
✓ You're carrying resentment and don't know how to transform it without pretending it's not there
✓ You want to work WITH the seasons instead of against them
✓ You're ready to do real, messy, honest emotional work
✓ You understand that gratitude has to be earned, not forced
✓ You're looking for practices that actually work—not performative spiritual content
WHAT YOU'LL NEED
A tarot or oracle deck
A journal
A few quiet moments each day
Paper, pen, and either a fireproof bowl OR a place to bury something
Willingness to sit with uncomfortable feelings
That's it. No fancy tools. No expensive supplies. Just you, your deck, and your honesty.
Who am I?
I'm Lorriane and I've been teaching seasonal tarot and spiritual living for more than ten years.
I'm the author of 10 books, tarot decks and oracle decks (including the Seasons of the Witch series), and I've spent my career helping people work with the seasons, the wheel of the year, and real emotional transformation.
I created The November Reset because this is the work I needed myself. I was tired of gratitude practices that felt like lies. Tired of "love and light" when I was actually carrying resentment. Tired of spiritual bypassing.
I needed practices that honored BOTH the shadow and the light. That started with truth, not positivity.
So I built them. And now I'm sharing them with you.
Want to go deeper?
This 3-day reset is just the beginning.
Inside The Unfolding—my monthly membership—we do this work every single month, aligned with the seasons.
November: Resentment → Gratitude
December: Exhaustion → Grounding
January: Conformity → Authenticity
February: Loneliness → Belonging
And on through the year. 12 months. 12 transformations.
Each month, you get:
A 45-60 minute video course teaching the full emotional arc
Weekly tarot spreads, seasonal recipes, rituals, and journal prompts
Timing guidance using the zodiac and wheel of the year
Real practices that honor both shadow and light
This is transformation as a practice, not a one-time event.
It's $25/month (going to $35 in January). And right now, you get immediate access to the Seer's Guild archives—over 100 tarot spreads, recipes, and teachings.